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Around 65 people came out last night to talk safety on transit. Best of all, we had an incredibly high participation rate! So many people bravely told their stories and we had an excellent dialogue about how to create change.

We are so inspired by your energy!

You can read a bit more about some of the stories submitted in today’s Metro.

The results of our forum will be tabulated into a report that will be made public sometime before our next meeting with OC Transpo on June 20th. Stay tuned!

Part of our evening involved a photo booth where we asked people to creatively resist harassment on transit. Check ‘em out!

The Hollaback! Ottawa team

You can RSVP on Facebook here.

For a second, I was a little stunned. But as I’ve gotten older and more confident, I decided to stop letting these things slide when I have the opportunity to say something. So even though they’d driven off, I started power walking up Sussex, towards where their car was stuck at the light.

They must have seen me coming, since I could see the guy in the passenger seat turn and look behind him, and then gesture to the driver. As they panicked and made an illegal right turn into the market to escape me, I did manage to yell “REALLY? ON INTERNATIONAL WOMEN’S DAY??” They sped off into the market, afraid, I guess, of my anger. Embarrassed, I hope, of their behaviour, as grown men, to shout something so gross and idiotic at a total stranger.

Today was different. I got off the bus, and noticed the guy with a red cross vest and ID badge.
As he walked by, he said “nice scarf!”. I turned to give him the “I know the Red Cross rocks but I’m in a hurry and don’t have money” spiel, but before I could could begin,
he asked “Do you know why I stopped you?”
“To tell me about the Red Cross,” I started
“No, because you have the most beautiful eyes.”

By that point I was very uncomfortable and mumbled something about having to go meet friends. I don’t often get this kind of unwanted attention so blatantly, even though so many guys seem morbidly sincere-like they think women actually like this.
Pro tip: don’t compliment total strangers multiple times when they’re trying to go somewhere. Some people, some times appreciate a kind word; this was not the case here (about appreciating or about the words being kind.)
The whole thing was even weirder since it coming was from someone who I assumed was volunteering for a good cause.
Another conflict for myself, despite all I’ve learned about assault and misogyny, is that this is the second time in this neighbourhood that men have thrown unwanted words at me when made an effort to look nice that day. Confirmation bias, I know; there are plenty of days I make an effort to look good and am not harassed, and plenty of days I’m dressed comfortable and casual yet don’t have the luxury of invisibility from creeps.

To end my story the scuz then had the nerve to ask,
“Do you have a minute?”
“NO” and I quickly turned the corner and walked off.

Wednesday afternoon (at ‘quitting time’) I was in the SDM, in line at the cash, waiting to get to the soft drink coolers. I got to the coolers, selected my soft drink, turned around and headed back to my place in line – I just spotted a guy with his Blackberry, caught sight of my photo – on his display, and him just sending off an email. I stood there, asked him if he liked his Blackberry, he admitted yes, this was his work phone and he had an IPhone as well. But the Blackberry was his work phone. Anyways, got to pay for my soft drink, he was at the cash next to me and bought bus tickets. I left the store, then I said just loud enough that it is not right to be taking pictures of people that you don’t know. He then sped up to get to the Metcalfe and Slater doors and headed towards the westbound bus stop. I should have yelled it out, but too darn polite to do so. This was a white guy – late 30′s early 40′s light brown hair. That is all we need, another slimebag taking photos of women – at least it wasn’t in the w/c. The attitude of this guy – and also using his work phone to boot! If he works for the gov’t, he ought to be ashamed of that behaviour.